Let me introduce myself. I am Vanitha. I am 36 years old. I am sensitive and chicken hearted personality. I am suffering from phobia, mainly fear of sexual contact and sounds. Due to the fear of sexual intercourse I had to marry two times in my life. Though I was dedicated and workaholic women I became a failure in my marital life. I wanted to succeed in my marital life too. But I didn’t know how to? I believe in monogamy, unfortunately I had to accept two life partners in my life.

                           My first marriage was in 2002. He was from a well to do family. As a wife I couldn’t satisfy my husband’s needs. Due to this reason we led an isolated life. This isolated life separated us mentally and physically. I couldn’t   blame my parent’s action.  I put the blames   on my own shoulder. So I signed in the divorce paper without any complaints.

                            After the divorce I couldn’t face my family, friends or relatives.  I kept a distance with all. I confined myself in my own home. I was aloof, isolated disappointed indifferent and depressed. I consulted a psychiatrist. He encouraged me to study further. Slowly I recovered from my depressed state. What to say my mother started to show the sign of depression. I wanted to see my mother’s happy face. So I decided to marry again. One of my neighbors suggested a proposal. It was nice. He was fresh and a good man. At first I didn’t say anything about my sexual problem to him. One day I had to disclose. Hearing my sexual problems he didn’t become upset at first, instead he took the problem as a challenge. He promised me that he would find a solution for it. He was so supportive and generous. I was nothing in front of him. He was really a great man. He made my life as a fruitful one. He decided to treat me. First we consulted a Psychiatrist. He prescribed some pills. It was for tension and anxiety. But this attempt was an utter failure for us. Again we consulted the same psychiatrist. He was gentle and sympathetic. He sincerely wished to help us. But his entire attempt was utter failure for us. He suggested us to consult a gynecologist. She did a hymenectomy on me. But nothing changed my life. My family suggested us to consult an Astrologer. He said that I was under the influence of gandharva and Sarppa. We did Gandharva pooja and Sarppa pooja. But nothing could change me. After this we consulted a clinical psychologist. We spent 3 months there. She did psychotherapy on me. My husband was adamant in his decision. He disliked to withdraw. He decided to consult famous psychologist Mathew Vellore. He went to Thiruvananthapuram.  Actually Mathew Vellore stopped his consultation due to old age. Unknowingly my husband went to his home and met his son there. He suggested Dr. Gireesh, But we had to stop the consultations due to the inconvenience in travelling. Again we consulted the same psychiatrist whom I mentioned earlier. As a last attempt he suggested us to see Dr. Promodu.

                              I was in Dr. Promodu’s consultation room. I was diffident, tensed and panicked. I was haunted by a question. I was in a dilemma. I hesitated to ask such a question to him. But I couldn’t conceal my feelings. So I decided to ask. My question was that whether I could overcome my phobia. He smiled at me, mean while he phoned to one of his patients, she talked with me. Her words spread a ray of hope in my mind. To a great astonishment I met my old colleague and classmate there. She was suffering from the same problems. Thus I started my treatment.

                                   Now I am thrilled and extremely delighted. Dr. Promodu is like a god. As a god he helped me to help myself. I can enjoy my sexual life. Dr. Promodu taught me that to overcome your phobia you have to face it. Thus I faced my phobia with continuous practice. This practice made me perfect. I am thankful to god my husband and Dr. Promodu.                                      

I was in a totally depressed state when I stepped into Dr. Promodu’s Institute on April -1 2015. I came here with my parents and husband. We consulted Dr. Promodu who heard my problems patiently and sympathetically. My marriage was in February 2008. After a few months we consulted a lady gynaecologist in our locality as I was unconsummated. She tried to examine me and I was very much scared during PV examination and I could not cooperate with her. We were shocked to hear that we never had a successful intercourse up to that time. She said that the fear will disappear after a successful intercourse and suggested a hymenectomy. But as I was scared did not agree for that. After two months we went to a famous endocrinologist and infertility specialist at Mangalore. There also I could not co operate with him. Seeing my scaring nature he shouted at me and asked me to get out of his consultation room. He screamed and shouted that he never had seen such a worst patient. I returned in a panic state. My parents and husband were so depressed. After a few months we consulted another gynaecologist. I faced the same situation again. He said that I am suffering from severe vaginismus. He advised my husband to take me to a psychiatrist. When met the psychiatrist he pointed out his assumption that I was sexually abused in my teenage or I was unhappy with this marriage. But I did not have any such problem. Refusing to believe that and tried in several ways to interrogate me and to take things out of my mind. He prescribed several antidepressant drugs also. As I was drowsy always after taking the medicine discontinued that treatment. Then my mother advised me to consult an ayurveda gynaecologist. She treated me for one year but all ended in vain. Then my parents took me to another gynaecologist. She also scolded me a lot. The nurses there laughed at me. They said that “Your husband will divorce you and you will be all alone in this world”. I and my parents came out of the clinic filled with tears. My father asked several doctors for solution but no one could give a correct guidance. One of the doctors said him to take me to a famous medical college where there is separate section for clinical psychiatry. We went there and took their treatment for six months. I was very much uncomfortable to sit in front of psychiatric ward. We went there for nearly twenty times and took several courses of relaxation techniques and drugs. But my condition was unchanged. After that we went to a famous infertility specialist at Kozhikode who screamed and shouted at me. He asked my husband to divorce me and shouted that “Mental hospital cell is the correct place for me”. That was the worst day in my life. I decided not to consult any more gynaecologist thereafter. I did not know what to do. Even I thought of committing suicide. I was simply searched in the net to find out whether any other person in this world was suffering from such a plight. Suddenly I came across Dr.Promodu’s Institute. I read a story of a patient who came across similar circumstances, suffering from vaginismus. I decided to go to this place as my last resort. We came here. He advised us for a three weeks sex therapy. I and my husband stayed in the hospital to undergo the treatment. To my surprise I found that my fear and anxiety was reducing day by day. I was able to co operate with all the steps advised by the doctor. No one misbehaved to me, not tried to criticize and humiliate me during the course of treatment. Thus without any torture and panic I could slowly get out of my problems. I could successfully overcome the miseries and tortures I have been undergoing all these 7 years. Now we are extremely happy and relaxed. We thank God Almighty and the whole team in Dr. Promodu’s Institute for their appreciable treatment.

13.06.2015.                                                                                                  Chithra & Harish

I thought of writing a feedback after we are blessed with kid, but every passing day after having undergone Promod sir treatment make it compelling to write a feedback. Promod sir next to God when it comes to giving normal life back to newly wed couples like me. Sir is beyond words. I pray and wish people like Pramod sir to exist for generations to come. I thank Pramod sir from the bottom of my heart for helping me and my wife to recover from leading a disastrous marriage life filled with sorrow and helplessness. No words can measure what Pramod sir has done to us. Thanks again and we will always remember you as long as we exist in this world. As of now Pramod sir is next to God for us. May God bless you. Thank you sir.

SAA

Daer doctor,
Today October 14 is one of the most important memorable day in my life, because my penile implant operation was on this date in 2013. Now I have completed just one year. I got my life, youth and my most beloved pleasure. I have taken upto 300 mg of viagra with out any effect except severe head ache and other discomfort. When I started with 50 mg 5 years ago it was very effective and I had to increase the dose up to 300 mg. But it was in vein. After the implant operation my wife atlast felt that now we are really enjoing life. Thanks to you and your team.
With best wishes
N. K. Lal 

We have been married for 4 years but never had a sexual intercourse with my partner. So we decided to get professional help. We started browsing online and found Dr. Promodu’s clinic. We got an appointment booked and after consulting with him he suggested a therapy for 3-4 weeks. We were a little sceptic about the therapy initially but the doctor and the other staffs were so confident of the results that we decided to go ahead. The treatment included some normal exercises (in other words very stupid exercises and not sexual at all) but these can do wonders. Swear nobody in the world would have ever imagined. The doctor and nurses were very much helpful and approachable. We were out patients though most of the other couples per them were in-patients during that time. The service of the clinic is excellent and very systematic. The treatment has helped us a lot and we were not only able to have a successful intercourse but as I write I am 2 month pregnant too. Highlights - Zero medicine, Zero vulgarity and the most important factor Dr Promodu’s skills. He is one of a kind and the best. Doctor & your team, you are doing a wonderful service to the society. Keep up the noble work. Thank you very much.

We had been married for 3 years and were unable to consummate the marriage as my wife was always fearful towards penetrative sex. She always anticipated pain when ever we tried and we just couldnt do it. Initially we thought its the usual pain at first time, but later realized after consulting several doctors and psychiatrists that the problem is just the mental block resulting in muscle tightness. We were told that the condition is called Vaginismus, but nobody could help us resolve it. We came to Dr. Promodus institute as per our parents suggestion. Because of previous experiences with other experts, we were not much hopeful. However, Dr. Promodus confidence that he can get it resolved with 3-4 weeks Sex Therapy was something we had never seen before. So we decided to give it a try. Doctors guarantee that our problem can be solved acted as a further boost to us. Our problem was resolved in the time frame doctor gave us. We were so happy that we could have penetrative sex first time after 3 years of marriage and with Gods grace now we are expecting a baby within two months after the treatment. Doctors professionalism, understanding and reassurances to resolve our every day challenges is commendable. He helped us stop worrying and do one step at a time. Sisters support to us, who assisted doctor in the therapy, needs special mention. All hospital staff were highly coordinated and we never had a case of miscommunication between any hospital departments. Hospital canteen food was homely with good taste. Canteen person was very friendly and motivating. Thank you so much Dr. Promodu and team.

Thank you doctor. Words not enough to expresss our gratitude and joy. I cant believe it I am going to be a mother. By the time we came to you my parents had already suggested for a divorce. Though he could not perform sexually, in the corner of my heart there was a little ove for him. That is why when when our kearalite friend suggested to come to you I agreed and my parents gave an ultimatum "This is the last chance". Luckly your team could find out the reason for my husbands ED and cure it. He had taken a tons and tons of medicines from different doctors. When the psychiatrist told that it is mental problem we couldnt believe. It a wonder that you cured it even without any medicines. Thanks to you and all your team sir. What we found it diffcult was 3 weeks long hospital admission. You should do something to cut it short. This is the only drawback we observed.
With best wishes.
Sudheeshna.

My wife was a severe vaginismus patient,we got married 04 years before.At first I thought her fear for penetration as normal,but a famous gynaecologist in Mumbai who couldnt examine her suggested a Fenton surgery for her.There starts our horrible journey of married life as her fear increased because of behaviour of doctors as many doc considered her problem as acting or they didnt consider it as a problem.Countless Gynaecologists and many sexologist including the famous Prakash kothari couldnt sort out the issue.I heard about Dr Pramodu before,but took the decision to get admitted by Jan 14.we got admitted by end jan and we were out of the hospital after successful treatment.No words to explain about the Doctor.His confidence cleared my wifes doubts about her recovery from the condition the first day itself.Head nurse was also very cordial and soft which made her comfortable day by day.In short we had penetrative sex by day 18.Excellent rooms and homely food make this hospital best in the country..Thank you sir you give us back our life

Frankly speaking I was very upset when the Gynecologist from Laksmi hospital advised me to consult a psychologist or a psychiatrist. On the day of first consultation she had told me that the problem is due to my thick hymen and I would recover with an operation. Even after the operation we couldn’t have an intercourse. I was reluctant to consult the psychiatrist. Only due to the compulsion of my husband we met a psychiatrist. After taking his medicine I was feeling very tired and was sleeping the whole day. So I stopped it and consulted my gynecologist again. When we told that I couldn’t continue psychiatric medicines due to tiredness, she referred me to you. I was shivering when entered into your room but I was relieved when you told firmly that my problem can be treated and cured. Though I got a little confidence I was more worried as I knew that it is not a simple issue. My first marriage lasted for 9 years and 4 months till the death of husband in an accident in September 2010. Though we tried many times, all attempts were futile. I have decided not to go for a second marriage though all my relatives insisted for the same. At last I had to agree to see Mr. Suresh after listening to his stories from my aunt. I felt sympathy for Suresh, so I did not object. When he asked why I don’t have any children in my first marriage, I told him “I am fresh”. In fact I was aiming to give him a hint about my problem, I was ashamed to discuss more than this. But he couldn’t understand the meaning at that time. After marriage when I had severe fear and pain he shouted at me and slapped once. Many times we discussed about a divorce. But as it is a second marriage for both of us, we were not daring to talk it out. So we tried treatment at different hospitals. Out of desperation we thought of trying a last chance at your hospital. Now I cannot conceal my excitement having enjoyed sex for the first time in my life. I can never forget this day in my life. I told my husband “Today only I became a real wife”. When doctor promised that I will recover within 3 weeks I didn’t believe that.  We were skeptical about sex therapy also as we never knew what it is and what you are going to do. But I found that it was very soothing and reassuring experience. It is a wonder that I recovered and got discharged from the hospital on 18^th day. Now our sexual contact is successful and satisfactory for both of us.

After a decade of long suffering it is miracle only by God’s grace that I recovered and able to lead a normal life like any other woman. Thanks to God almighty and the Dr.  Promodu for saving our lives. I have been keeping it as a secret. You may think why I am wasting my time to write all these in detail when nobody like even to remember such experiences again. Because till arriving at Dr. Promodu’s Hospital I thought that I am the only one on earth suffering from such a misery. Now I realized that there are other people too. So I thought of sharing my experience, if it helps at least another one like me I am glad. May God bless to give relief to all those suffering like I had.

Thank you sir. Words are not sufficient to express our gratitutde. We are coming to you with our son Madhav. Today was his Choroonu at Guruvayur temple. We plan to visit you next month. May Lord Krishna bless you. Guruvayurappan brought us to you. We came to you in august 2012. I cant forget that day. We were brooding of even ending our lives. Fed up by questions from parents, friends and neighbours such as " It is whose problem? ......Actually who is at fault?.... She cannot have a child why dont you think avoiding her and go for a second marriage?. Life was a hell for both of us. My uncle Govindaraj found out your address and took us to you. After meeting all the doctors again we came to you. You are first person garenteed that our problem can be solved. Though we took treatment for almost 8 years, nobody gave a guarenttee. Though you told us it needs 3 to 4 weeks, our treatment was completed in 3 weeks. We couldnt believe the day we had our first sexual relations, in fact the actual first night. Thank you doctor. Thanks to all the doctors and staff of your hospital. May guruvayurappan bless all of you.

With respect and love
Prajod, Savithri & Madhav.